A few weeks ago, about 45 of us MBA students spent the best part of our semester break in Abu Dhabi taking a negotiations course. It was a pretty intense week with 8.30am starts and the average day ending at 9.30pm. I think the majority of us who we went into the course were trying to find the best way to negotiate a great salary package given we were all going to be immersed in recruiting activities shortly after. The course was pretty rewarding in that I felt I learnt so much and whilst I would not call myself a guru in negotiations, I can say that I am armed with a framework that would assist me positively in such situations. The core of my post has nothing to do with the content of the course itself but focuses simply on the final words of our renowned professor on our closing day.
He concluded by saying to us, “You will all make money in your lifetime so don’t be worried about money as it is just a small composition of what would be meaningful in your life so it is important to ensure that those other things are taken care of too (things like family etc) .”
I don’t think he could have closed the day any better. I personally was waiting the whole week to get to that point where we would spend a considerable amount of time on salary negotiation which we did (we all want to be rich, right?). So I guess the personal learnings for me were as follows: I should be careful not to base what I value (my perception of richness), my life’s value solely on the zeros in front of a dollar sign, that I should not focus what I consider fulfillment and success on what the world typically views it as and I need to carefully decide what RICHNESS means to me. It could mean having little to no money, and working for a NGO in Africa or it could mean having a yacht and owning penthouses around the world and having no time or it could possibly mean a life where I don’t have significant amount of money but I have enough time to share with those I love (that in itself is some valuable sort of currency, don’t you think?). I think you get the idea. It’s important to determine what being rich means for you not just in monetary terms but also in other currencies not so often talked about by the world.
With that I leave you.
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“It’s good to have money and the things that money can buy, but it’s good, too, to check up once in a while and make sure that you haven’t lost the things that money can’t buy.” –George Lorimer